Family Constellation work is based on a simple but profound idea: our well-being is tied to the well-being of our family system, or “family Soul” which includes the living, the dead, and the generations that came before us. It invokes the ancient practice of honoring our ancestors. At a deep level we are the result of the past making us connected with everything, especially our family legacy, whether or not we recognize it. It follows us until we understand and heal it.
Like a flock of birds or a school of fish, each family is held in an invisible field that envelops and governs all its members, who can sense each other and move in concert without a word being spoken. Any painful event touches every single member and continues to echo down to later generations. As a result, people often carry and re-enact the original wounds of their ancestors.
These wounds are called unconscious “entanglements” some may call it fate or destiny and it may manifest in various different forms, but whether it be physically, emotionally or even psychologically they all block the natural flow of love through the generations until the client is able to acknowledge the whole family system including what has been disconnected because all systems seek wholeness and balance. But by seeing the root causes off struggle and suffering in one’s family can we expend into forgiveness, understanding, compassion and love. This energetic transformation can reconnect us to our own path and help us reclaim our own destiny.
Bert Hellinger who developed family constellations in the late 1970s' found that these three main principles he called the “Orders of Love” were universal in helping restore wholeness and balance in our family systems, schools and organizations. When either one of these principles are out of balance we become “entangled” and it interrupts us from living our lives fully.
The need to Belong; Everyone who is born into a family has the right to be part of that system. Even miscarriages, abortions, still born babies, important past loved ones belong to the system. When someone is forgotten, ignored, rejected, or exiled it blocks the natural flow of love and later generations will unconsciously want to “replace” that member by picking up similar behaviors, habits or feelings.
The need for social order: (Precedence) simply those who come first in chronological order. Partnership before parenthood, eldest before youngest even if they have past. Examples of this when not in balance is when a child parents their parent, or “mom, I forgive you for not being a good mom” in these cases the child puts themselves in a higher place then their parent by feeling better than the other when their job is to be small, be a child. This also blocks the natural flow of love.
The need for equilibrium; By honoring this principle, of Giving and Taking our relationships become sustained and are able to grow fully. When both have given and both have taken equally, it diminishes feelings of guilt or innocence, entitlement or obligation. All of which limits the natural flow of love in our systems.
Family Constellations usually take place in a group setting, however they’re facilitated just as well in an individual session, in which together we will choose various objects to represent the client, the issue and the family system.
Constellation work is a powerful method for discerning many complexities that often show up in our relationships, behavioral patterns and inter-generational family dynamics.
We will work with various constellation exercises and techniques to gain insight, or a new perspective on a difficult situation in our lives. The goal is to connect with our resources, regulate our nervous system, and restore balance in order to help us reconnect to love, joy and personal power.
I facilitate this work with the help of my somatic experiencing intermediate three level, as well as other energetic approaches with the aim to support orientation in the here-and-now, increase regulation within the nervous system, creating presence and an embodiment state of well-being and ease. I look forward to welcoming you in an accepting, non-judgemental and safe space.
La constellation familiale est un processus individuel ou de groupe, dans lequel des participants d’un groupe sont invités à représenter des membres de la famille et d'autres aspects pour le client, qui reçoit une constellation. Le travail de constellation est une méthode puissante pour discerner les nombreuses complexités qui se manifestent souvent dans nos relations, nos schémas comportementaux, le sentiment d'être bloqué dans la vie, le sentiment d'être insatisfait et/ou malheureux, et bien plus encore. Le travail de constellation familiale aide à résoudre les dynamiques familiales intergénérationnelles qui sont souvent liées à la problématique du client.
Je facilite ce travail avec l'aide de mon niveau 3 intermédiaire en expérience somatique, ainsi que d'autres approches énergétiques dans le but de soutenir l'orientation dans l'ici et maintenant, d'augmenter la régulation dans le système nerveux, de créer un état de présence et d'incarnation de bien-être et de facilité.
Quand nous travaillons ensemble individuellement, nous utiliserons des divers objets pour représenter la position du client, la problématique et le système familial.
Although these sessions may be therapeutic, they do not replace medical care or conventional therapy.
Bien que ces séances puissent être thérapeutiques, elles ne remplacent pas les soins médicaux ou une thérapie conventionnelle.
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